Traits of a TOXIC relationship

 No matter how much you love your partner, you don't feel good in your relationship.  If your relationship is toxic and makes you unhappy, you should consider leaving.  Here are the signs that your relationship is not healthy.

 Toxic relationships are unfortunately much more common than you might think.  And often, people find it difficult to realize that their relationship is not healthy.  Yes, the doubt is true: love makes you blind.  However, a romantic relationship should not make you unhappy or prevent you from fulfilling yourself.

 Rather, both partners should share respect and love, trying to support each other.

 To avoid being in denial for too long, just observe your daily life and take note of all the little warning signs.  Some are not wrong.  Run away quickly!

 You must ask for permission

 Yes, in a relationship, it's important to consider your partner's desires before making a decision, but it doesn't have to work all in one direction.  If you have to ask your lover for permission to act, and you feel like you are not free, it is a sign of a toxic or even abusive relationship.

You are emotionally exhausted

 If you're putting all your energy into arguments or constantly fighting to make your relationship okay, there's a problem.  A healthy relationship is based on happiness and fulfillment.  And it needs to happen more naturally.

 You are not yourself

 Your partner does not support certain aspects of your personality or some of your passions or interests?  If that person doesn't love you for the way you are, you can be sure that they don't deserve you.  Run away !

 You do everything to avoid arguments

 You probably think it's best for your relationship to constantly avoid arguments.  The problem is that you accumulate the unspoken and by force, everything risks exploding suddenly.  Especially if you act against your personal values.  The fear of starting an argument or separating yourself from your partner shouldn't be a reason to let it go.

 You don't feel good about yourself

 Your partner talks badly to you and spends his time putting you down.  By force, you lose confidence in yourself.  You must at all costs escape this relationship and this person who is manipulating you.

 You argue all the time

 Yes, all couples go through times of crisis or argue from time to time.  But if you can't get along or communicate anymore, how can you be really happy together?

 You think about the past instead of moving forward

 Is your relationship at a standstill?  Maybe it's because you keep rehashing the past.  You think of old arguments or discords that have not been resolved and you wonder how to get the matter back on the table.  Unfortunately, you can't move forward without fixing the problem.

 Your professional life is impacted

 Staying in touch with each other during the day can have benefits, but within limits.  If you spend your day monitoring your partner's actions, texting or calling them, it can take a toll on your productivity.  And this proves that you are not at peace.

 Your relationship is out of balance

 In a healthy relationship, both partners make decisions together and both have control over their daily lives.  If your partner is alone and prevents you from doing so, there is a problem.

 You have to hide things

 You know very well that some things are going to upset him, but you must not lie to him to avoid an argument.  A healthy relationship is based on mutual trust, remember.

 You are always afraid of doing wrong

 This constant anxiety can weaken and tire you, with force.  If you wonder every day whether you're doing the right thing for your relationship or every time you're doing something for yourself, there's a problem.

 You start to lose your self-esteem

 Your partner must not make you think that you are worse than him.  In a healthy relationship, both partners support each other and care about each other's well-being.

 You don't feel safe

 In this case, run away, and quickly!  In any case, you shouldn't feel uncomfortable or unsafe in a relationship.  Talk to your loved ones and leave your partner immediately.

 You don't think about yourself

 Your relationship shouldn't revolve around one and the same person.  Your desires and needs must be respected, just like those of your partner.  It is a necessary balance, to respect for a healthy relationship

 In a healthy relationship, both partners make decisions together and both have control over their daily lives.  If your partner is alone and prevents you from doing so, there is a problem.

 You have to hide things

 You know very well that some things are going to upset him, but you must not lie to him to avoid an argument.  A healthy relationship is based on mutual trust, remember.

 You are always afraid of doing wrong

 This constant anxiety can weaken and tire you, with force.  If you wonder every day whether you're doing the right thing for your relationship or every time you're doing something for yourself, there's a problem.

 You start to lose your self-esteem

 Your partner must not make you think that you are worse than him.  In a healthy relationship, both partners support each other and care about each other's well-being.

 You don't feel safe

 In this case, run away, and quickly!  In any case, you shouldn't feel uncomfortable or unsafe in a relationship.  Talk to your loved ones and leave your partner immediately.

 You don't think about yourself

 Your relationship shouldn't revolve around one and the same person.  Your desires and needs must be respected, just like those of your partner.  It is a necessary balance, to respect for a healthy relationship.